We live in one of the most blessed periods of history. People can feasibly grow up to be anything they want. Gone are the days when you girls could become a nurse or a teacher. Gone are the days when a carpenters son had the sole option of continuing the family business. The options in front of us are endless.

I for one want to be an internet entrepreneur, a sports star, a leading digital figure in Sydney, a surf lifesaver, a good friend, great boyfriend, author, public speaker, rugby coach, comedian, etc, etc, etc.
Life is great…… until you can’t decide which one you should tackle first. I’ve noticed this trend amongst close friends. Those who are blessed with options are often cursed with indecision.
Although I’m obviously far from the poster child of focus. I have started developing some little reminders that I use to keep myself on the straight and narrow.
1. Action precedes clarity. Start actually doing things and the decision will quite often make itself. Making pro and con lists ad nauseam will literally drive you demented. Follow Nikes lead and ‘Just do it’; if you want to be an author start writing and publishing on the web, a public speaker apply to be on panels at meet ups of interest. Planning is great, but I find at really early stages it inevitably leads to procrastination. Accept that you’ll make mistakes (I can’t say don’t be afraid, because you will be) and simply find ways to get amongst it.
2. You can only have as many priorities as you have arms. Juggling life is hard, don’t throw too many oranges in the air, you’ll end up concentrating on all the oranges that are hitting the floor. Try to tackle one thing at a time, don’t spend more than a day deciding which one to tackle first. Just go with your gut and start moving.
I’ve found that reminding myself to pick ‘one thing’ and ‘fast forward’ is a great way of testing the water. When you find something that you don’t mind working hard on, you’ve struck gold. Keep going and shoot for the stars.
If you have other ideas on how to deal with ‘option paralysis’, don’t weigh up the options of expressing it, let it out right here…..I can’t wait to hear your ideas.